FLHT, PLEASE DON'T GET ME WRONG HERE!!!!! I have nothing against children. I have many neices and nephews. Now you have to remember the WHOLE reply. There was a long period in my life where I could hardly take care of myself, let alone a child. I could do without eating for a few days,
a child can't. I was way to selfish and into way too many negitive things to be responsable for another human being.
I also saw what happens to many children when there is no father figure in their lives. My wife comes from a large family. She is one of 10 children. Out of 7 girls and 3 boys there are plenty of children to go around.
My wife and I are the only ones who don't have any children. If I started to tell you all the storys about the sisters with their husbands plus the kids.
I would be writting a very long book. Lets just say that out of all the women not one is with the father of their oldest children. Now they also had kids with their men that they are with now. For a long time though I was the only male figure in these kids lives when they were in those forbatable years. I was not around them all the time. If I was things would have been differant.
Most of the kids turned into good kids. We still have some problems with a few. All in all they turned into adults and now have their own children.
So now they are getting a taste of what it was like for the adults when they were growing up. The differance is that now they can see what is right and wrong. plus they are with their wives and two parents that put positive reinforsement inot a child works.
Like I said before "WHAT YOU PUT IN ....IS WHAT YOU WILL GET OUT. So if they are good parents and teach right from wrong and stay on it. their kids will turn out just fine. So I hope you understand that I am not a hater. I am just glad that someone else did the nasty deed to have my 2.2 children.
The 2.2 is what they say is the average family child rate in the country.
Enjoy your bundle of joy. All I know is I have no idea how MY parents made it threw my childhood and some of my adult hood. I know I got my ass beat when I did the wrong. I didn't just get it for the sake of getting it.
Now out of the kids mouths you here "If you hit me I am going to call the cops. You see I would hit the child and tell himto call the cops. Then I would ask where will you be when I am in jail. I would close the house up and do my time. Thats for giving MY child disapline..There is a new way nowadays. I don't see it working at all. Kids have no respect for anything today. They think life is cell phones and x boxes and Britney Spears. Plus if I had a girl and she dressed the way some of these kids dress today. she would not leave the house... GUMBY PEACE | 
